Thursday, January 21, 2010

Yep, estrogen overload

What he said: "If you want to go, then go. Obviously I always want you with me. But I know you're here all day everyday without much chance to get out, and I want you to go if it's what you want."

What I heard/felt: "If you go, it means you don't want to be with me the way I want to be with you (and you should feel really crappy and guilty about that)."

Sheesh. Poor guy. He has to live with me. What am I saying? I have to live with myself. And I HAVE to hear all my thoughts. Any of you other ladies this crazy?


Lisa said...


annieology said...

You get over it.

lisa b said...

Yeah, you do. Get over it, that is. In a few years, you'll figure that if they mean it they should say it.

If he says, "No, go. SIGH," I still go.

People should say what they mean. ;-)

Of course this level of realization unfortunately comes at the same time in life you will gain the courage to actually say what *you* mean so it can make for some very interesting interchanges.